That Teacher/Adult

Just a memo. The most sustainable thing I’ve found you can teach a little human is respect. That’s how you spot out an exemplary human from a “trash” one. So if you’ve ever caught yourself (as a teacher or adult) gloatingly saying “Well they don’t do that around me”, regarding some ill-advisable behavior of a…

A Retired Catch

I remember years ago I used to know I was a catch. Till someone threw me back in. Then another. And another. Then I had to have a bigger booty, and know how to dance, and not be so passionate about human virtues. And basically be another person. And now I just chill. I’ll let…

When you’re Done with Humans Part 1000: Employment

You ever get to the point where you don’t want to work for people anymore? Like you have so many ideas to make things better but it seems sometimes the world (and to be real, also my timeliness) stuck on mediocre & ego? Like a restaurant that cleans their dishes manually inside of tubs of…

Dear Buddha

I tried. Sincerely, A far less pissed off and depressed person than would normally be, under these same circumstances 💚 #evolution #inbabysteps ((& thanks for showing me how to (try)).

Quit Acting Normal, a Message from Life to me

If Life was a person, I feel like s/h/they’d say: Quit Acting Normal. Ain’t none of y’all that, so just stop it. Yeah, I think it would go something a lot like that. Cuz the truth I’ve seen is a lot of us act out of our trauma. I’m reactive when I sense someone is…

The Goddess Whitney Houston

Whitney was a Goddess to me and my immigrant family growing up. My Uncle’s only favorite American song was “I Wanna Dance with Somebody”. My mom thought she was “so smart” in The Bodyguard and “Waiting to Exhale”. Oh wait, I never saw “Waiting to Exhale” with my mom, but somehow this concocted memory keeps…

Dust & The Elite Club of the Living

It’s weird when someone transitions, I feel like we feel pity, almost from this unsaid place of privilege, like we’re of the eternal realm of the living and they left the club. But none of us are permanent members. It hit me that at at any moment, each of us can turn into dust, into…

To anyone ever contemplating suicide

I want you to know that you matter. No matter what fools think of you. You matter. Please don’t ever let the foolish drive you to think you don’t. Anytime you want to stop feeling, remember what going to a lake, an ocean, a meadow, an undiscovered place does. Go there. I felt my emotions…

Things about America/Americans (or maybe the world) that Make No Sense to Me

1. The way we vote (billboards is really all it takes though?) 2. The way we (well, y’all) date and regard human relationships. 3. The way we (y’all) hold elections and debates. 4. The way they (definitely y’all) ((don’t)) recycle whole recyclable azz products. With no qualms. Like we’re not the largest carbon footprint having…

Political Debates & Sip’n’Paints

Watching these debates is like picking which drunk adult paints the best landscape at a sip and paint. (Should I explain that further?). I feel like candidates should just post their answers to specific questions by scheduled dates on their respective YouTube channels with the drawn out animation explanation things for the visual/kinesthetic learners, so…

FBoy Prevention

We all dislike (and simultaneously encourage, let’s keep it 💯) fboys. They’re douchebags, after all. But what if it’s one in your family? Your uncle. Your brother. What is your responsibility to the world? I’ll tell you what mine is: to let them know they’re being one. And let them know when they act right….